By Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo
In the pursuit of understanding love, one often finds themselves in a whirlwind of emotions, leading to suffering when loss strikes.
It's crucial to distinguish between the concept of possessiveness and authentic love, a distinction often blurred in our perception of affection.
Possessiveness whispers, 'I love you because you bring me joy.'
Yet, authentic love echoes, 'I love you and yearn for your happiness.
If my presence contributes to it, it's a blessing. But, even in my absence, may you find peace and joy.'
Often, we go off track here, deluding ourselves that the tighter we hold onto someone, the deeper our love.
But that's simply the manifestation of an insecure ego, craving ownership.
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